The Austronesian Comparative Dictionary

Loans: bear, endure

The history of this word is unclear. A number of forms seem clearly to have been borrowed from language__Malay, including modern language__Javanese tahan. However, language__Old Javanese tahən suggests that this was a native word before the modern era. It is possible that the language__Old Javanese form was borrowed by language__Malay, underwent the regular merger of *a and schwa in the ultima, and then was disseminated by language__Malay speakers into a wider range of languages, including modern language__Javanese. Dempwolff (1938) posited ‘Uraustronesisch’ *taqan ‘to bear, endure’.

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Tagalog pag-tahán act of ceasing or stopping (as from crying, joking, scolding or the like)
Tahán Stop! (said to one who is crying)
Toba Batak ma-nahan to carry, bear; to hold out, endure
Malay tahan holding out against; resistance; restraint; to sustain
Ngaju Dayak tahan to hold out, persevere, endure
Sundanese tahan hold out against, resist
Old Javanese tahən to restrain oneself with respect to, be in awe of
t<um>ahən to hold out, stand, endure, bear, sustain, suffer; resist, restrain
Javanese tahan-an prisoner
nahan to restrain
tahan to (with)stand, endure
Balinese tahan endure, put up with
tahen bear with, endure, persist
Bikol mag-táhan to endure, withstand; to outlast